Beliefs and mindset

Before they ever met you

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The person who treated you hurtfully, who judged you, who disappointed you… Their responses to you were set in motion long before they ever met you. This is not about you. You? Now? Your influence and power lie in stopping for a moment and choosing your response. Note: This is not analytic philosophy or epistemology. … Read more

Want freedom? Maybe quit fleeing

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When we feel pressure, a common instinct is to flee. Sometimes fleeting is wise (e.g. from an abusive relationship) but oftentimes it is not. There is no universal law here. Facing the pressure and taking it on (yet again taking on more responsibility, and complaining about it) may be terrible advice. On the other hand, … Read more

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